Friendship is an enigma wrapped in a riddle. My friend Bob used to say that about things that were confusing. I don’t really understand it, but I get what it means. It’s a confession… a confessing of complication and confusion. It’s as if you’re saying, “This topic is so convoluted and difficult to understand that we can all have different opinions on it and all be right.” Understanding friendship is like trying to nail down Jello (that’s another one of my favorite sayings fr